RANT! (work-related)

[Laura Claudia]

That's fucking it! I can't take it any longer! I fucking HATE MY JOB!!! AND I HATE MY FUCKING BOSS!!! ARGH WHY does this ALWAYS happen to me?? Oh I know, 'cos I'm just WAY TOO FUCKING NICE!! I can't say no, I simply can't!!!!

So today I had to work from 12 to 4PM....fine...it's saturday, I can still invite some friends to come over when I'm off... then one of the other dishwashers calls... she had to go to work at 5PM and stay there all night, like I did yesterday.... she's still sick, she says! And I can just FEEL that EVERYONE is looking at me, and without having asked, I KNOW WHAT THEY'RE GONNA ASK ME!!! ARGH!!!! So I got off now, but I have to be back at fucking 5.30 again!! IHHHH!!!!!!!! And the WORST THING IS... my boss... I fucking LOAD him... he's the biggest arsehole on this planet.... but.... I don't know... I guess it's 'cos he's Italian and my dad's Italian and he reminds me a bit of my dad, to be honest he's kind of a father figure, in some twisted way, of course... so... I can't just say "No fucking way, Filippo!" I tried to, but then he gives me that LOOK and I totally loose control over my mouth! Suddenly I could hear myself say "Okay..." and I thought I was gonna die! No fucking way do I want to go to work again! NO FUCKING WAY! But I said yes so I have to....WHY THE FUCK DID I SAY YES?!?!! GOD I hate myself right now...and I hate my fucking boss too, 'cos he KNOWS that he can do this with me... and he uses it every motherfucking time!! OHH I'm so angry!! If anyone was here I'd kill the person with one hell of a big knife!!!!!


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[Takk]

*cautiously walks in out of range of knife*

Aww, cheer up. Think of James! And the extra money you will have for manics related items. :D ;)

[Dancing May Girl]

Money to the trip to Stockholm!!!

[Jason]

Hi all hope your all well

I know the exactly how shit the working enviroment can be take recently for instance i started my new job since i have been there nobody has really bothered with me or could give a toss to help me.

I am in a completely different job as now i work on a computer i have i admit found the change hard but i have done the right thing i have always asked for help though whenever i do my crys seem to fall on death ears as i tend to find the people there can be very ignorant.
Also if a mistake which is made by me is found out they then will turn round and tear strips off me about it the other day i ended up getting into a arguement about this in which i stated that if they helped me when i asked then the mistakes wouldunt and if i do make a mistake they wont tell me they will slag me off behined my back which id caught them doing the other day for which i have now arranged a meeting with my manager in which i will get these issues across as i am now starting to feel useless and my confidence is taking a beating over it especially when i hear ppl putting me down.

I am sorry to hear bout your problems in your job and i hope things improve for you soon.

Take Care all

Jason

Too many have dispensed with generosity in order to practice charity.

Albert Camus

[Steve]

sorry to hear things are going so shit for you Laura:( ...i know you've hated your boss a while now haven't you, I mean i remember loads of times when you've been going to/just home from work and in such a bad mood. thing is, if it makes you so unhappy all the time then why not just quit? There'll be other opportunities for jobs. I know it's easier said than done but if a job was making me so unhappy and angry I'd have quit way before now. Start looking for somewhere else to work and when you find somewhere...tell him to go stick his job. If you don't find somewhere soon then you should decide which is more important, you being happy or earning a bit of money...

hope you get it sorted soon though Laura:)

[Laura Claudia]

Actually I've thought about getting new job for ages... and you're right, I've hated my boss forever! I hated him after having talked to him once and that's 3 years ago now!

But you see... there's this thing... it's quite difficult to explain but I'll try anyway...sigh...okay...

You see, my dad's Italian and I have a BIG Italian family that I USED to visit a lot...but now... I don't know... my dad and I have sorta drifted apart...mostly because of me I think and... well.... I still have all the memories from when I "lived" in Italy.... you know, the language, the culture, the "one-big-family" thing and... well.... my work is sort of a replacement! I know it sounds sick, but it's true! Because everyone at the restaurant is Italian and they all LOVE me 'cos I can understand what they're saying and I can respond and shit like that and... it's like they're my family... I just realised today that I see all of them as my brothers and uncles 'cos it's like I'm missing that part.... man, it's so weird! So... that's way it's so hard for me to "just" quit... I know I'm gonna miss them terribly once I've left... and....ah I don't know... I think I'll quit by september, 'cos on the other side of the road there's this firm and my friend works there and he makes loads of money.... ah help! Tell me what to do! Am I sick in the head or something? 'cos tonight was really nice... we didn't have that much to do and everyone was happy and singing(!) and we really enjoyed it.... but....fuck....I don't know....:confused:

[Steve]

aah i get why it'd be hard for you to leave..that is a tough situation:( but in the end if it's not making you happy then you have to do what will make you happy. sounds like there's a good place where you could try and get a job where your friend works...could be the best thing to do. But on the other hand ..i guess it'll be hard whatever you decide to do. Just go with what will make you happiest...no job is worth what you're putting yourself through...hope you get it sorted anyways:)

[Laura Claudia]

Thanks very much! :)

[darkanddivine]

I agree, lifes to short to be unhappy (I know that sounds a bit cheesy but...) I think your happiness should be put in front of any employment, and alright if you quit it'd be tough for a few months but let your boss know that he's not very important he's just the boss of (I didnt see you mention where you work sorry!) company X and it means jack shit to you. And say bye bye nicewly and accept that lovely redundancy package then have a few weeks off chill out and get new job. I know its more complicated than that but you know what I mean......

[Lover of Outrage]

Ah Laura you're suffering from loyalty! It's a great virture but if they are taking advantage of you all the time are they being as loyal to you? It's great you consider others but sometimes you do have to look after number one.

[Laura Claudia]

Ah I know! It's awful, innit? I'm TOO nice and I hate being nice!! Well I don't but...you know! You're all right...I need another job....